autisticspyro

autisticspyro asked:

tfw people who hate children think it's perfectly acceptable to openly hate children and continue perpetrating a cycle and cloud of violence toward children for not understanding the world or morality or literally anything because they are children

notactuallycute answered:

I ‘hate’ children, I want nothing to do with them and don’t understand why people gush over them but I still respect them as fucking human beings and want what’s best for them, which includes understanding their limitations.

-Ry

autisticspyro:

akhalinmochroi:

autisticspyro:

akhalinmochroi:

autisticspyro:

akhalinmochroi:

you dont understand why people gush over children? really?

they’re more precious than even animals. They each deserve to be loved and appreciated, even more so than any dog or cat does.

Why is that so difficult to understand?

some people, such as myself, have issues understanding or empathizing with children

some people, such as myself, have grown up in abusive households and are literally incapable of handling or understanding children because we were treated like adults the second we could learn to speak and write

you are perfectly allowed to dislike and not understand children; it is when you openly despise children, call them disgusting names and belittle them and place their priorities under an animal’s that you perpetrate violence and abuse against them

i personally like children but i cannot stand being around them for any length of time because i am easily annoyed (children set off my autistic tendencies BIG TIME) and some people are just more geared toward children than others

also, there are adults out there who will allow children to literally abuse animals man; you gotta have a balance between protecting the child and protecting the animal because animals are just as precious as children to some people and some animals are treated like dirt BECAUSE of your mentality

not being able to handle dealing with children (understandable) is not the same thing as ‘hate’ing them and being unable to understand why anyone would love them.

it’s perfectly reasonable to dislike and hate children though

people are so drastically different that you really just cannot understand why, for example, some people like homestuck when you (hypothetically) hate it so goddamn much because you don’t understand it or it just isn’t your thing and then you hear people talk about it so much that you just get sick of it or you saw something about it that just sickened you to such a degree that you just could not stand it anymore

it’s a little like that, except in this case openly voicing how much you hate children and saying disgusting comments about them contributes to a system that traumatizes them and allows for the demonization of them

children are living, breathing beings, much in the same way snakes are, but you get similar reactions to either depending on the person you ask, but so long as you don’t openly advocate against children and your opinion isn’t like, utterly garbage(like that pixie—girl was doing) it’s perfectly alright tbh to not like children

they’re pretty gross and they get snot and drool on everything and they break everything and they’re expensive so i mean

go right ahead and like them but people have very good reasons for not liking them in most situations

Listen, I want to give you a break because you have described yourself as autistic.

But do not dehumanize people by comparing them to animals. Children are not like snakes. Children are far more important than snakes, or dogs, or cats, or birds, or lizards, or fish. Similarly, children are not comparable to a dumb comic made in mspaint.

Children are human beings, and you should be thankful enough that the adults in your life didn’t dislike you because it would have hurt you very badly if they did. You should be thankful enough not to make them seem inhuman, because that sort of attitude is harmful to children.

"you should be thankful enough that the adults in your life didn’t dislike you because it would have hurt you very badly if they did. ”

did you like

entirely skip the part where i literally mentioned i was abused

my dad emotionally fuckin abused me dude i don’t know what it’s like to be loved only for it to end in violence and shit breaking

also children are worth a lot, yes, but i am using comparisons to show you the other side of the argument and how some people view children, which is not as highly as you view them

i do like children, but i want nothing to do with them; there is literally nothing wrong with that, and most people who hate children (and don’t have/spew their opinions about how children are horrible horrible creatures) have the same idea: they want absolutely nothing to do with children

why is that wrong

Sorry, I did miss that part, but that should further accentuate what i mean when I say it’s harmful for people to ‘hate’ kids.

To be fair to me you also have not paid adequate attention to what I have said. I already said I don’t care if you want nothing to do with children, but that’s different from ‘hating’ them.

And this is aside the problem that you were just dehumanizing children, which is a tactic people use to rationalize themselves into abusing them. This conversation is over, learn from it or don’t.

autisticspyro

autisticspyro asked:

tfw people who hate children think it's perfectly acceptable to openly hate children and continue perpetrating a cycle and cloud of violence toward children for not understanding the world or morality or literally anything because they are children

notactuallycute answered:

I ‘hate’ children, I want nothing to do with them and don’t understand why people gush over them but I still respect them as fucking human beings and want what’s best for them, which includes understanding their limitations.

-Ry

autisticspyro:

akhalinmochroi:

autisticspyro:

akhalinmochroi:

you dont understand why people gush over children? really?

they’re more precious than even animals. They each deserve to be loved and appreciated, even more so than any dog or cat does.

Why is that so difficult to understand?

some people, such as myself, have issues understanding or empathizing with children

some people, such as myself, have grown up in abusive households and are literally incapable of handling or understanding children because we were treated like adults the second we could learn to speak and write

you are perfectly allowed to dislike and not understand children; it is when you openly despise children, call them disgusting names and belittle them and place their priorities under an animal’s that you perpetrate violence and abuse against them

i personally like children but i cannot stand being around them for any length of time because i am easily annoyed (children set off my autistic tendencies BIG TIME) and some people are just more geared toward children than others

also, there are adults out there who will allow children to literally abuse animals man; you gotta have a balance between protecting the child and protecting the animal because animals are just as precious as children to some people and some animals are treated like dirt BECAUSE of your mentality

not being able to handle dealing with children (understandable) is not the same thing as ‘hate’ing them and being unable to understand why anyone would love them.

it’s perfectly reasonable to dislike and hate children though

people are so drastically different that you really just cannot understand why, for example, some people like homestuck when you (hypothetically) hate it so goddamn much because you don’t understand it or it just isn’t your thing and then you hear people talk about it so much that you just get sick of it or you saw something about it that just sickened you to such a degree that you just could not stand it anymore

it’s a little like that, except in this case openly voicing how much you hate children and saying disgusting comments about them contributes to a system that traumatizes them and allows for the demonization of them

children are living, breathing beings, much in the same way snakes are, but you get similar reactions to either depending on the person you ask, but so long as you don’t openly advocate against children and your opinion isn’t like, utterly garbage(like that pixie—girl was doing) it’s perfectly alright tbh to not like children

they’re pretty gross and they get snot and drool on everything and they break everything and they’re expensive so i mean

go right ahead and like them but people have very good reasons for not liking them in most situations

Listen, I want to give you a break because you have described yourself as autistic.

But do not dehumanize people by comparing them to animals. Children are not like snakes. Children are far more important than snakes, or dogs, or cats, or birds, or lizards, or fish. Similarly, children are not comparable to a dumb comic made in mspaint.

Children are human beings, and you should be thankful enough that the adults in your life didn’t dislike you because it would have hurt you very badly if they did. You should be thankful enough not to make them seem inhuman, because that sort of attitude is harmful to children.

autisticspyro

autisticspyro asked:

tfw people who hate children think it's perfectly acceptable to openly hate children and continue perpetrating a cycle and cloud of violence toward children for not understanding the world or morality or literally anything because they are children

notactuallycute answered:

I ‘hate’ children, I want nothing to do with them and don’t understand why people gush over them but I still respect them as fucking human beings and want what’s best for them, which includes understanding their limitations.

-Ry

autisticspyro:

akhalinmochroi:

you dont understand why people gush over children? really?

they’re more precious than even animals. They each deserve to be loved and appreciated, even more so than any dog or cat does.

Why is that so difficult to understand?

some people, such as myself, have issues understanding or empathizing with children

some people, such as myself, have grown up in abusive households and are literally incapable of handling or understanding children because we were treated like adults the second we could learn to speak and write

you are perfectly allowed to dislike and not understand children; it is when you openly despise children, call them disgusting names and belittle them and place their priorities under an animal’s that you perpetrate violence and abuse against them

i personally like children but i cannot stand being around them for any length of time because i am easily annoyed (children set off my autistic tendencies BIG TIME) and some people are just more geared toward children than others

also, there are adults out there who will allow children to literally abuse animals man; you gotta have a balance between protecting the child and protecting the animal because animals are just as precious as children to some people and some animals are treated like dirt BECAUSE of your mentality

not being able to handle dealing with children (understandable) is not the same thing as ‘hate’ing them and being unable to understand why anyone would love them.

notactuallycute

autisticspyro asked:

tfw people who hate children think it's perfectly acceptable to openly hate children and continue perpetrating a cycle and cloud of violence toward children for not understanding the world or morality or literally anything because they are children

notactuallycute answered:

I ‘hate’ children, I want nothing to do with them and don’t understand why people gush over them but I still respect them as fucking human beings and want what’s best for them, which includes understanding their limitations.

-Ry

you dont understand why people gush over children? really?

they’re more precious than even animals. They each deserve to be loved and appreciated, even more so than any dog or cat does.

Why is that so difficult to understand?

notactuallycute
notactuallycute:

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themadhattressxo:

This is why I hate humans. Parents will think a baby and a kid together, awe so cute there is no chance that the kid will strangle or be a danger to the cat. Instead they think oh no, a cat defending itself after being attacked what a horrible thing the cat should be punished. Now please do not take this that I think the animal is in the wrong. It was in the right! That baby tried to punch it in the face!!! The parents need to keep that brat away from any animal until a certain age and train the kid how to treat animals!! If they still try to hurt an animal there is something disturbingly wrong with that child and should never be allowed around any animal!!! This is way I hate the human race!!
notactuallycute
please look at this and show how this person is in the wrong

Neither the child nor the cat is in the wrong, this is purely the parents fault. The cat was being rough with the child, biting at his feet and such, and the parents ignored the kids pleas because they thought it was funny and thus the kid did the only thing he could think of to make it stop.
The cat did cat things, the kid did kid things - the parents failed to do parent things, they also failed to do good pet owner things. There was no need for this situation to occur in the first place and no reason why it couldn’t have been resolved quickly and peacefully.
-Ry

that is the most disgusting fucking video.
The parents laughing as their child is crying.
I am so mad right now.

notactuallycute:

[snip]

themadhattressxo:

This is why I hate humans. Parents will think a baby and a kid together, awe so cute there is no chance that the kid will strangle or be a danger to the cat. Instead they think oh no, a cat defending itself after being attacked what a horrible thing the cat should be punished. Now please do not take this that I think the animal is in the wrong. It was in the right! That baby tried to punch it in the face!!! The parents need to keep that brat away from any animal until a certain age and train the kid how to treat animals!! If they still try to hurt an animal there is something disturbingly wrong with that child and should never be allowed around any animal!!! This is way I hate the human race!!

notactuallycute
please look at this and show how this person is in the wrong

Neither the child nor the cat is in the wrong, this is purely the parents fault. The cat was being rough with the child, biting at his feet and such, and the parents ignored the kids pleas because they thought it was funny and thus the kid did the only thing he could think of to make it stop.

The cat did cat things, the kid did kid things - the parents failed to do parent things, they also failed to do good pet owner things. There was no need for this situation to occur in the first place and no reason why it couldn’t have been resolved quickly and peacefully.

-Ry

that is the most disgusting fucking video.

The parents laughing as their child is crying.

I am so mad right now.

saigio
fromseveralroomsaway:

leannewoodfull:

lutefisktacoandbeer:

kittymudface:

It gets better—the guy is deaf, and he taught his cat the sign for “food.” So the cat’s not just saying “put that in my mouth,” it’s actually signing

Not only that, but if you notice at the beginning, the cat *gets the man’s attention* as any person who wanted to talk to a deaf/hoh individual would (well, and vice versa IME). I’ve done sign since I was 5, and generally, w/o eye contact initially, you wave a hand or lightly touch the arm (if that’s ok with the person you’re trying to converse with, of course). Generally, adult cats meow mostly to humans, but this cat has figured out that’s not going to work and has adapted. Animal companions! They are INCREDIBLE.

Amazing.

EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND LOOK AT THIS CAT.

cats are quite cool and intelligent. i would not be surprised if it were a common occurrence for the cat of a deaf person to typically adopt this kind of behavior.

fromseveralroomsaway:

leannewoodfull:

lutefisktacoandbeer:

kittymudface:

It gets better—the guy is deaf, and he taught his cat the sign for “food.” So the cat’s not just saying “put that in my mouth,” it’s actually signing

Not only that, but if you notice at the beginning, the cat *gets the man’s attention* as any person who wanted to talk to a deaf/hoh individual would (well, and vice versa IME). I’ve done sign since I was 5, and generally, w/o eye contact initially, you wave a hand or lightly touch the arm (if that’s ok with the person you’re trying to converse with, of course). 
Generally, adult cats meow mostly to humans, but this cat has figured out that’s not going to work and has adapted. Animal companions! They are INCREDIBLE.

Amazing.

EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING AND LOOK AT THIS CAT.

cats are quite cool and intelligent. i would not be surprised if it were a common occurrence for the cat of a deaf person to typically adopt this kind of behavior.